Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth. As a loving deer and graceful doe, let her breasts satisfy you at all times; and always be enraptured with her love.                                                                                           Proverbs 5; 18- 19                                                              If you have ever fixed your mental gaze on the breasts-‘the feelings booster’- as what sustains relationship, it is paramount you erase and expunge this picture from your mind.A time approaches every woman when her physiological set up shrinks from her youthful frame. Then, something is happening to her- change; it is constant. The breasts no longer stand in their places. They are falling down apart.That is why feelings don’t sustain relationship. Emotion does not bring commitment in courtship. Permit me to play on some words to paint a better picture. Curves do not carve out commitment in courtship, character does.From the passage above, what satisfaction does a man get from the falling breasts of a woman? Take note, I underlined loving, graceful and enraptured. I checked up these words in the Oxford Advanced Learner’s dictionary   to discover some things. Loving means showing love or strong affection.  Graceful is pleasing in both styles and attitude; polite and considerate. “Considerate” was capitalized in the dictionary, so I curiously flipped a few pages backward to find the meanings; it reads, ‘careful not to hurt or trouble others; thoughtful’. Enraptured means be filled with great delight and joy.Therefore, it is character as being loving, pleasing in style and attitude, or being considerate and thoughtful of the man, that satisfies him, not really the breasts. The character will carve the commitment, and the man will be enraptured with you, even when the breasts are losing their curves. So, Woman! Give the man what he really needs- character, not the curves! Curves aren’t enough, character is the stuff.

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